Finding Forgiveness
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At TF, we're all about following Jesus...
There was a study recently
done by the largest church in North America, Willow Creek, in Chicago.
They surveyed 175,000 people from over 700 different churches. All
different denominations and styles. This study revealed that there were
4 different types of people in churches:
1) Exploring Christ - People with a belief in God but not sure what to think about Jesus.
2) Growing in Christ - People new to faith and exploring a personal walk with God.
3) Close to Christ - Christ is important and people rely on him for daily guidance and help.
4)
Christ-centered - These are people for whom Christ is everything, they
are working to align every value, every action, every detail of their
lives around the teachings of Jesus.
The Reveal study found that
the differences among these four groups are huge. There were obvious
differences in attitudes about God and others. These attitudes then
translated themselves into behaviors: how they spend their time, how
they serve others, how they invest in those who don't know Jesus, how
they manage their money.
So the researchers started asking, "how
does a person move toward being Christ-centered (4)"? You'll be glad to
know that their studies found that the church helped in that journey.
Sunday morning worship, being a part of a small group, serving in
ministry - all of those activities helped a person move closer to
Christ. While those were all significant, there was one activity that
blew the others away; engaging the bible.
They discovered that
people went through a process of reading the bible. People started with
occasionally reading the bible, to when you do read it thinking about
it more deeply, to a daily study of the bible. Christ-centered people
became Christ-centered through an increased engagement with scripture.
They move from "I don't even know how to read the bible, it intimidates
me" to "it's the most indispensable aspect of my life." The more
committed they were to studying the bible, the more committed they
became to Christ. In case you're wondering, the next three most
important aspects of a person becoming more committed to Christ were
prayer, relationships and serving.
Which sound a lot like our The
5 (ipod slide) Engagement with scripture comes under the discipline of
Worshipping God. We worship God not just on Sunday morning, but the
rest of the week as well.
Weekly - SOAP Christ-centered
With that in mind, we're going to approach the scripture passage a bit
differently this morning. I'm not going to preach today, at least not
in the usual way (I know you're all excited). This morning we'll be
engaging the passage through the SOAP process.
If you're new this
morning, I just want to let you know this is a bit different than what
we usually do. I usually give an incredibly engaging, witty,
life-transforming 3 hour monologue. And if you've never engaged
scripture in this way, it's going to feel a bit awkward. It's like
trying to learn how to ride a bike as a kid, it's not comfortable at
first. Believe me when I say, learning how to engage the bible is worth
the effort.
Scripture The S in SOAP stands for scripture. Read back
of weekly Every Sunday in 2008, we're looking at a passage from the
book of Matthew. Matthew is one of the books in our bible about the
life of Jesus.
Matthew 9:1-8 reread together, aloud sit down
David, I'll sit everyone down, I'd like to have you keep the passage on
the screen for another minute, you'll probably have to switch back
between screens
Is there one verse or phrase in particular that
spoke out to you? If so, write it down on that half sheet of paper
that's on your chair. Pause for one minute
Imagine you're one of these characters.
What do you think may have prompted these men to take their friend to Jesus?
How do you think the paralyzed man responded? Was he happy or frustrated?
How would you respond if your friends tried to drag you to Jesus? Would you be brave enough to hope for healing? Pause
When we read passages from the bible, we need to pay attention to their
context. What stories lead up to this and what stories follow. Authors
had reasons for the order of their stories. This story is the third in
a trio of stories about Jesus' power. The story right before this one
was about Jesus having power over demons. The one before that was about
Jesus having power to calm the storm. This story shows the power of
Jesus to forgive and heal.
We also pay attention to the important
words. The most important word in this passage is the word "sin." What
does the bible mean by sin? The literal translation of this word, "sin"
is "to miss the mark." God has this target for your life, a trajectory
he wants you to follow. Sin is missing that mark. Turning away from
God's best for you. Veering off target.
When you're engaging your
SOAP readings, read them several times. And then you'll be ready for
the next step, Observation. Read from weekly
So let's take a minute
for you to do that, to rewrite this passage in your own words. To write
down any observations you might have. 2 minutes
I'll share with you
some of the things that jumped out at me. Some of these are my own.
Some came through my usual study methods. When I'm reading for my own
spiritual growth, I don't usually use the types of books I use when I'm
preparing a message. God speaks to me directly through this SOAP
process. But when I'm preparing to speak to a room full of people, I
need to share more than just my own insights, so I use other resources.
So if any of these observations seem really insightful, it probably
came from my study.
Vs. 2a - "faith" The paralyzed man obviously
had no say in the matter, his friends just picked him up. "Dude, you're
coming with us." Was he excited to meet Jesus, or was he thinking, "I'm
just getting my hopes up again."
The real heroes of this story
are his friends. These guys had to carry their paralyzed buddy through
the thick crowds around Jesus. In fact, in one of the other book about
Jesus in the bible, we read that they had to lower their friend down
through the roof. And there were no paid vacations in those days. They
would've had to skip work to get their friend to Jesus. It was hard
work, it cost them money, but they were willing to do whatever was
necessary to introduce their friend to Jesus. That's friendship.
We
read that Jesus was impressed by the faith of the friends. Jesus didn't
mention the faith of the paralyzed man, he mentioned the faith of the
friends. The paralyzed man was too depressed to have faith, so his
friends had faith for him.
When I read that, I thought of a story
in our church. Travis Botcher shared his personal story on Easter and
he invited several friends to be here that day. One couple came just to
be nice but really expect much, they'd be glad to stay awake during the
service. But God got a hold of them that morning. We've started meeting
together for Bible studies, they've been in church every Sunday since
Easter. It's Marty and Lindsay Mothersbaugh. Stand And you want to know
a funny coincidence, they were on Travis' Fave Five. He was praying for
them. He had faith on their behalf. But Travis' faith is now becoming
theirs. And now Marty and Lindsay are started filling out their own
Fave Five card.
When we met on Wednesday, we talked about this
idea of forgiveness. My observation is that forgiveness is the main
theme of this passage. Vs. 2b
How do you think the paralyzed man
took this? "I don't need my sins forgiven, I need to be healed." But
the wisdom of Jesus prompted him to move past the physical need to the
even deeper need. Forgiveness is our deepest need.
We've all
missed the mark. We've hurt ourselves, we've hurt those we care about,
we've hurt God. Until we experience forgiveness, we're paralyzed just
like this man.
I love what Jesus says to him, "you sins are
forgiven." Which is different than, "I forgive you." Jesus isn't
choosing right then to forgive the man, Jesus has already decided to
forgive even before the man ever got there. Forgiveness was a foregone
conclusion. It's God's nature to forgive. He's already decided to
forgive. The question is whether or not we can hear him saying that.
Vs. 3 - this makes me laugh. Why yes, he does think he's God. Sometimes
I crack myself up when I'm reading the Bible. Jesus clearly believed he
was God. Either he really was God or he was crazy.
Vs. 4-6 Do you
think Jesus is just showing off? He's backing up his words. This
miracle proved that Jesus has the power to forgive. With just a word,
Jesus made this man right again. And in case you missed this miracle,
he died and came back to life. Christ is Risen He's showing the power
that comes when we're forgiven. Only after the man is forgiven does he
have the power to leave the sickness behind. The same is true of us.
We're forgiven first, then we leave that pattern of sin behind.
After he's healed, Jesus tells him to pick up his mat and go home.
"Home" is a powerful word here. For years, this man wasn't able to pick
up his kids, hug his wife, shake hands with his friends. He was
separated from his most important relationships. That's what sin does.
Forgiveness allows us to go back to life the way it was meant to be.
Vs. 7
Have you ever hurt someone? That's an obvious one. Have you
ever heard that person say, "I forgive you."? It's like coming home
after a long trip.
Application weekly
I'm going to ask you some questions based on the observations we just made.
1)
Who is in your Fave Five? Is there someone you care about that does not
yet have faith? Can you have faith for them? What does it look like to
carry them to Jesus? Maybe it's telling them you're praying for them.
Maybe it's bringing a meal to them. Maybe it's sharing your story with
them?
2) Have you heard Jesus say, "your sins are forgiven"? It's
already been decided, but are you listening? Or have you convinced
yourself you've committed the unforgivable sin? Do you really believe
Jesus has the authority to forgive sins?
3) Who do you need to forgive? The person who hurt you, God, yourself?
4)
What would it look like to go home? Maybe home is being at peace with
yourself. Maybe it's reconciling with that other person. Maybe it's
connecting with a faith community, like TF. Maybe it's going to
counseling to get help with that issue.
Are you ready to go home?
We're going to take a few minutes for you to write and apply this passage to your life.
2 minutes
Prayer weekly
For a lot of people, it's easier to write a prayer than to speak the prayer.
Maybe
you prayer begins, "I need to be forgiven of _____." Maybe it's, "I
need to forgive ____." Maybe you pray, "help me carry ____ to Jesus."
Maybe you write, "God help me go home."
2 minutes
Prayers
You
can continue praying if you'd like. While the band is playing these
next two songs, I invite you (when you're ready) to walk to one of the
tables and receive communion. Communion is our celebration of what
Jesus did on the cross. It's a physical reminder of his forgiveness.
The bread represents his body broken on the cross and the juice
represents his blood shed on the cross.
If you're ready to accept
Jesus' forgiveness, I encourage you to take the elements. There are
also offering baskets for you to give of your offering.
As you taste the elements, may you hear "you are forgiven."


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